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Your Potential Is Limitless

LNS in Action, ContributorsSadai K.1 Comment

This year for the first time I participated in the second annual “Little Feet Meet” Special Olympics event.  The event held at Albemarle High School brought together children with and without disabilities to participate in a day of Olympic events, team building and overall fun.  I was lucky enough to attend this year with a group of students that I work with weekly on a variety of things such as language and social skills.  Each of my students was partnered up with a fifth grade buddy that would help guide and support them throughout the event.

Before we even left the school building, I was touched to see how attentive and kind the fifth graders were to my students. The fifth graders of our school and a third grade class even surprised us before we left with posters and cheered us on in the school auditorium. Once we got to Albemarle High School, I continued to be blown away with how inclusive and welcoming the environment of the entire event was.  What was also amazing was that our entire fifth grade came out to this event with banners and noisemakers in the bleachers to support our athletes. I was so proud of our fifth graders and grateful to fifth grade teachers for promoting such a sense of community and support by coming out to watch the events this day.

Things only got better once the races began.  Each of my students and their buddies were lined up at the start line ready to go.  Once they began to run, it was amazing to see that all of my students and their buddies stayed together as they raced.  I have one little guy who is non-verbal and not the most athletic. However, when he was with his buddy, he had the BEST running form of anyone and completed that race with no difficulty. I was happy to see children just being children and having fun with no expectations or limitations being placed on them. That theme continued throughout the event as my students and their buddies worked together to play with the giant parachutes, compete in throwing and jumping events, and soccer.  There was not a moment that passed in which my students were not with their buddies having a great time.  


On our way back to school one of the fifth grade buddies commented, “So that’s it? Will we get to practice or come back?”  That comment let me know that Little Feet Meet was successful in its goal, which is to bring together children regardless of their abilities to promote inclusion.  I knew that my students had a great time but it made me tear up to hear the fifth grade buddies talk about all of the fun that they had and the new friendships they made.  I wish that more opportunities like Little Feet Meet existed throughout the school year because it’s events like that that truly make a difference and teach children that while indeed we are all “different” that’s OKAY. I think Little Feet Meet taught students that it’s okay to accept differences and not to be afraid of the child who flaps his arms as he walks. It’s okay to speak to the child who is non-verbal but lights up when given a smile. Weeks after the event, I can hear those fifth grade buddies in the hallway saying hi, or giving high fives to my students. It’s the simple things like that, which remind me why I love my job and the special little friends that I get to work with everyday. 


Sadai is a Speech-Language Pathologist who has been with Albemarle County Public Schools for almost 4 years.

Shine Your Light

Contributors, LNS in ActionMichelle Weiss3 Comments

Years ago, when my daughter was in fourth grade, she met an amazing boy in her religious education class who helped spark her interest in becoming a special education teacher. To many, this boy seemed a bit odd as he had trouble socializing and interacting with his peers, as well as keeping up with the curriculum. Yet, this boy was sweet and always greeted my daughter with a smile, which made her naturally feel a connection with him despite what others might have thought of their friendship. Without realizing his impact, this youngster made a life-long impression on my daughter and her future.

As we commemorate National Autism Month with the theme, “Light It Up”, I am reminded that while many only see the negatives that go along with a diagnosis such as autism, there are so many more positives that can and should be in the spotlight. People with autism shine their lights more than is recognized.

A masterpiece!

A masterpiece!

Sewing Sonic.

Sewing Sonic.

Completed Sonic stuffy.

Completed Sonic stuffy.

In December, I began working with autistic students at a local elementary school. Through this experience, I have had the pleasure of supporting a bright fourth grade student who, despite daily struggles, also lights up the room when interacting with peers and working toward his daily academic goals. When we went to art class, his creativity really began to shine. I was wowed by this child’s ability to decide that he wants to create something and then make that creation come to fruition. Don’t have the right materials? He comes up with ideas for a good substitute or an even better version of the materials than he thought he needed. Glue gun not working to make the creation complete? No problem . . . ! He asks if we can sew the pieces together. For an entire week, he worked diligently during his down- time to sew various parts of his creation. During these sewing sessions, we talked about the project’s progress, reviewed lessons, read a variety of stories, and answered questions from numerous worksheets. In addition to learning to sew, a skill that will help him in the future, this focused sewing activity allowed him to have a goal and put him in a calm, relaxed state. To date, he has created a diorama of Saturn, a ZapFish, and a Sonic stuffy.

Proud of his work!

There’s also the young student who gets extra assistance with math every day. This girl shines every time she walks in the room with a smile so wide that one cannot help but smile back. When she sits in the “teacher’s chair” and we all pretend that she is in charge, her giggles are contagious. I so look forward to seeing this student at the end of the day as she shines her positive light and shares her joy with us. Another student, who when studying different types of renewable energy, was able to connect the ideas of potential and kinetic energy to the discussion without prompting. His passionate nature extends beyond academics – he is the first one to be concerned for his fellow students when they might be having a bad day. I can’t forget my first grade friends: the boy who, when he’s on a roll, appreciates a brief break either blowing bubbles or playing with toy trains as a reward for his hard work and a second student who amazes me with what he can do when he puts his mind to it during our writing sessions.

These are just a few examples of how these children shine their light each and every day and somehow manage to make my day brighter and more meaningful. Just like the special boy who years ago helped my daughter find her future passion, I hope that everyone encourages their friends and family members to always try to find the light that shines in others. It’s definitely worth it!


Michelle Weiss, a military spouse and mom of two, began her career in journalism and health care public relations, becoming a teacher in 2008.

Autism Patience

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Sometimes you have to get creative when dealing with people who might not be as verbal as you'd like them to be. As the mother in this film says, "Not being able to speak isn't the same as not having something to say." Pretty powerful stuff. And well worth the watch.

Autism Acceptance Month acknowledges that every autistic person's path is unique. For Dillan, the dedication of his loved ones, years of hard work and his iPad made a big difference in how he connects with others. Hear Dillan, his mother and his therapist / communication partner share that journey. http://Appstore.com/Autism

Do Great Things

Contributors, LNS in ActionKeary Pieczynski2 Comments

At the end of the day, I love looking back and reflecting on some really great stuff that I get to experience every day as an autism teacher. It’s one of the best parts of my job. Great things happen all the time.  Little, great things. There is always something to celebrate. 

My students are amazing. They work harder than anyone I know. Sure there are obstacles and setbacks. But they continue to push through, overcome, and do great things. Always.

Yesterday was one of those days where my heart was so full of pride for one of my students. His story inspired today’s lunch note sketch.

Meet Tony.

Meet Tony. He is smart, funny, creative, and kind. This kiddo has taught me that there is more than one right way to do most things.  He is a problem solver. If he doesn’t have what he needs – he makes it. Need to know about dinosaurs? He’s your man! He has a quiet sense of humor, but can really get the giggles when watching silly kitten videos or looking at pictures of animals wearing crazy hats. He loves to share, and is quick to offer his teachers a cookie (or pickle) from his snack! The other students in my classroom look up to him. They care about him, and he cares about them. Not every day is a good day for Tony, but he comes back to school each day and tries his best. Sometimes it’s hard, but we’re learning about Tony and he’s learning to trust us, and together we’re making it through each day. 

Yesterday was the mile run. Tony isn’t the biggest fan of running. In fact, I am pretty sure he despises it.  But there we were walking toward the track to meet his classmates as they got ready to run the mile. I started to put my things down in the grass in preparation to run along with him, but his PE teacher looked at me and said, “You can’t run in those shoes! He’s got this! He’ll be fine!” And fine he was. He ran all 5 laps. Here he is on the cool down lap, talking to his friends.

Time to cool down.

I was so proud of him. I’m proud of him every day, but especially yesterday. He faced this challenge head on, and he gave it his all. Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try. He did it. He did a great thing.

 

Introducing Lunch Note Sketch Contributor Dominic Aratari

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It has long been a goal of mine to include different contributors in the Lunch Note Sketch family. Contributors are individuals who simply want to add much needed creativity to the sketches LNS offers. One reason for including others in this endeavor is to add variety to our portfolio of sketches. Another reason for adding contributors is to allow parents a chance to showcase the work they create for their own children.

Dominic Aratari and his beautiful family.

So, without further ado, I am extremely honored and excited to introduce Dominic Aratari as the first-ever official Lunch Note Sketch contributor! Dominic is an amazing artist, designer, and family man who currently resides in the Pacific Northwest. He is an award-winning Creative Director who has worked with organizations like CNN and Sports Illustrated. To add Dominic as a contributor to this site will only enhance the creativity LNS has to offer. I am also excited to say that Dominic has agreed to provide one sketch per week for the next 8 weeks!

Dominic’s first sketch is titled Stand Tall. After receiving his first sketch, I asked him a few questions to learn more about his work.

LNS: Why do you want to participate/contribute to Lunch Note Sketch?
Dominic: I wanted to participate in LNS because of how inspirational it was to see the love and dedication Luke brings forth to make his children’s day a little more special. The sketches do not take a whole lot of time and the payoff is priceless. It brings another form of imagination and positive messaging in a simple visual form. Contributing will allow me to add this same value and dedication to my children’s day and offer them this great gift of creativity. 

LNS: How did you come up with this first sketch?
Dominic: After our recent relocation from NYC to the Pacific Northwest, it seemed a fitting theme. We’ve spent a lot of time as a family exploring nature and state parks here. It’s amazing how time outdoors ignites the imagination and free spirit in my young children, and I want to balance nature in our very tech focused society. I think this theme will inspire the first few, but I will look to evolve it based on the activities we do and just good life messaging like Luke has done so well with LNS.

LNS: What was your process for this first sketch?
Dominic: I broke one big rule on this first one: I didn't have any post it notes yet, but I did acquire a huge pile this week. For Stand Tall, I began by drawing a series on squares of paper and sketched out a few layouts before I arrived at the look I wanted. I then placed another piece of paper over that drawing to redraw it again, to clean up and define the lines more. I then took a photo with my phone and brought it into Photoshop. This is where I made paths with the pen tool over my drawn lines and stroked each path with a brush at various sizes to give a sense of depth. I left all my stroked lines on a top layer and added the coloring/shading below. It took about 3 hours total for this piece.

I want to thank Dominic for participating! Please show your support of his work by liking and commenting on his sketches when they get posted, or welcome him by adding a comment below.

Space Tourism Posters

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This post is simply to serve as a public service announcement of sorts. These space tourism posters courtesy of NASA/JPL-Caltech are amazingly beautiful. The combination of art and science speaks to my two favorite subjects in school. The best part is that they are free to download and you can print them if you'd like. I would love to print some of these and decorate my walls.

I like all of the posters, but my favorite have to be the Grand Tour, Mars, and Jupiter posters. The Grand Tour poster has that retro feeling. The colors/shapes speak to the space feel. I like the bold colors of the Mars poster and its collage feel. The Jupiter poster is great because of its colors and dreamlike qualities. Which posters do you like most, and why?

Countdown to Dad 2.016

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The conference I have been waiting for is now only 7 days away! And it's only a short drive to Washington, DC! The Dad 2.0 Summit, an event aimed at dad bloggers, is “an opportunity to learn the tools and tactics used by influential bloggers to create high-quality content, build personal brands, and develop business ideas.” I am so excited to meet a ton of cool and influential people, learn new ideas on how to take Lunch Note Sketch to the next level, and play with drones.

I am excited to hand out a lot of these business cards. I hope people like them as much as I do.

I am really hoping to get a lot out of this amazing opportunity. It has all been made possible by the folks at Dad 2.0 Summit and the Miller Grant. I submitted an essay and was selected as one of 17 grant recipients to receive a free conference ticket and $500 for travel expenses. I am so grateful for the chance to really make an impact with Lunch Note Sketch and I hope to learn as much as I can from everyone I will meet there.

So, about those drones… there are a number of really great companies sponsoring the Dad 2.0 Summit and it will be great to interact with all of them. Best Buy is hosting a drone excursion that will take place at Hope Flower Farm in Northern Virginia. We will be eating barbecue, flying drones, and making videos. If that’s not an awesome experience, then let me tell you about another sponsor: LEGO. LEGO will be hosting a party at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History’s newly opened Innovation Wing for what is being called “A Night at the Museum.” Attendees will have access to a number of exhibits, as well as meet with a LEGO Master Builder, as we spend the evening playing with friends.

I plan on sharing a lot from this conference. So be on the lookout in the future to see/hear what I learned and how I plan to use my new knowledge. Let’s get creative!

Amazing Kids Room Makeover

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Wow! I have always had different ideas on how to improve our kids' rooms, but this father went a step beyond anything I have ever dreamt up. I feel like I really need to step up my game now. Kudos to this guy. I hope his children have fun with it. 

This video documents the build process for the indoor treehouse i built for my kids. It was done over a 2-3 day period as a Christmas present. More about the build here: http://mygaragebuild.com/building-a-treehouse-indoors/ Want to help me out? https://www.patreon.com/mygaragebuild The music is all from iMovie. (don't sue me!)

A Letter To My Children

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It has been a few days now since we lost our beloved Bailey. She was such a sweet and loving 8 year old puppy. As hard as it was to say goodbye, we did the right thing to stop her from suffering any longer. I know your memories of her will be few—if you remember her at all—so, I wanted to say a few things about Bailey and how much she meant to our family—to me.

This girl loved the snow.

They say dog is man’s best friend. I never doubted that saying, but I now know it’s especially true because I am faced with an enormous heartache. In the past 72 hours I have been flooded with emotions and memories. I have, at times, stopped dead in my tracks because a random memory popped in my head and I didn’t want to simply brush it aside. Like when we were outside throwing snowballs, I stopped for a minute because I knew Bailey loved to catch them and eat them. There are so many other memories, too. Memories of times before you were even born. As a puppy she really loved to keep us on our toes. From the time I got home to find our doorframe had been chewed off to the crazy few times we tried to give her a bath on our own. I will miss having her follow us around when a storm comes through. She hated storms and would stay so close that we would sometimes trip over her.

Bailey was at home in the water.

I’ll never forget how much Bailey loved the water. The beginning of her life was filled with swimming at the lake and chasing ducks. Your mother and I just laughed as we reminisced about the time we threw a ball out into the lake and she veered off course because she thought she could sneak up on a duck. Once the duck flew off she was content to circle back around to get the ball and bring it back to shore. She lived in the moment. She was always happy, but she was happiest at the lake. Her favorite words were “Hey Bailey, wanna go to the lake?” We will be spreading her ashes at her favorite spot once the weather gets warm as one last tribute.

She was also a fierce protector of our family. I loved that she was hesitant around any new men that came around. Whether it was the delivery man, door-to-door salesmen, or even our landlord. She would bark and growl like the great guardian that she was. I thought that was going to serve our family well as you got older. At the same time, she was so affectionate. She would shower me with kisses whenever I’d let her. She was always trying to give you kisses, too. And she always wanted to sit in people’s laps. At 70+ pounds, she made things interesting.

Luke and his dog.

One of the things we’ll miss the most is her ability to clean our dining room. It hit us in the past week, when Bailey didn’t want to eat, that we were blessed to have a living vacuum. Ever since you were eating food she was always there to quickly clean up any messes. For the first time in over 8 years, I had to vacuum the rug under the dining room table. And Luke, we would often just sit you on the floor after a meal and she would come clean you, too. I think that’s why you—Luke—loved Bailey so much.

The thing I will miss the most, though, was my bedtime routine. Before going to bed every night I would finish cleaning up and go around checking that the doors were locked and lights were off. Before heading to our room I would find Bailey sleeping on the couch. I would then get on all fours in front of her on the living room floor and put my head down as if to hide. She would happily jump off the couch and try to nudge me. She wanted in. She wanted to get her big head under me to be close. Without fail she would knock me over and we would either lay there for a minute or she would then get a ball to play. No matter what, I ended my night by petting this sweet dog. Now that you were in bed and your mother was asleep Bailey knew it was our time. She loved the attention. These late night memories are what I keep shedding a tear over. I laid on the living room floor the past few nights and for the first time there was no one there to nudge me. No furry animal to knock me over. No sweet loving Bailey for me to pet.

Bailey's food bowl acts as our new centerpiece on the dining room table.

So, they say dog is a man’s best friend. Yep. No doubt. It was extremely difficult watching her condition deteriorate in just 7 days. To go from a once happy, healthy, funny dog to a dog who was in pain and couldn’t even eat. There was nothing like laying on the vet floor, nose to nose with Bailey, petting her head and holding her paw as she breathed her last breath. Talk about a surreal moment. I lost my best friend and I’m a mess. Her dog bed will probably sit at the foot of our bed—it’s rightful spot—for a long time. I cleaned her food dish and put it at the center of our dining room table as a reminder that she was a part of our family for just 8 short years. It’s going to take a long time to get over this. Some might say “geez, it’s just a dog.” That’s true, she was a dog. But she was our dog. A beautiful soul. She was my best friend who loved me—loved us—no matter what. And everyday for 8 years of my life she was there for me. I just hope I was there for her.

I wanted to write this letter in the hope that you would remember something about Bailey. But if you don’t, that’s okay, too. The one thing I want you to take away from this, though, is that we suffered a great loss to our family. Admittedly, I probably took it the hardest. All of the sadness I felt, and all of the sadness I will feel, is nothing compared to all of the love, loyalty, and fun times Bailey gave us over 8 years. I hope you have the opportunity to welcome your own dog—or cat, or horse, or whatever animal you want—to your family one day so you can experience the same fulfillment I got. Life is certainly better if you have an animal companion to share it with.

Rest in peace, sweet Bailey.

Love,
Dad